Cool J in the Kitchen

This morning I was singing a song by LL Cool J, well, the chorus of a song as I recalled the music video from the 90s. Actually, I had to look up the actual artist who performed it, because beyond the hook of the chorus I don't know the song at all. And this got me thinking about music and identity. What does identifying with music as you grow up connect you to inside yourself, and when do stop listening to new things? And by listening, I mean that kind of knowing that is so intertwined with your soul that it's going to be with you your whole life. For me, I think that started when the artists started being younger than I was. "Oh, that's not for me," was what my head said as I dismissed to sounds. At some point that became this thing that I knew about the music without even really listening. But the radio and the videos still played, because inside me was this lyric and the voice of LL Cool J even tho I couldn't have named the artist five minutes ago. T...